It’s always easy to digest something when you know that it came from someone who loves you and has your best interest at heart. When we hear the word sex, we’re either turned off or turned on. Why, because of the world we live in. What was meant to be scared and beautiful has become raunchy and overrated. Boobs are on display and butts are becoming the topic of the day! What’s a guy to do, what’s a girl to do?
Fellas, Don’t Lust! Ladies, Don’t Compete!
Who invented these body parts, God and they have their special functions. Who invented sex, the same holy, sovereign God! His only requirements were to get married young man and young woman. It’s better to marry than to burn (in lust) 1Cor. 7:9. We tempt ourselves and wonder why we can’t settle for one woman or one man. What I feared most about sex, was not enjoying it! The ultimate disrespect, is to be in the act and be counting sheep’s.
(Futher reading 1 Corinthians 7-9)
We have to get rid of this distorted view of sex. Why would you want to have a quickie when you can have something that will last from morning till night. I’m talking about love, romance, and bomb sex.
I have some advice for you! If you’re sexing someone other than your spouse STOP! YEP, GO COLD TURKEY! You’re not helping yourself or the person you’re giving yourself to. Set some standards, don’t you want to have something to look forward to on your honeymoon night, instead you’ll be thinking about all the women or men you’ve let sample your goods.
If you are married, and haven’t had sex in awhile, what’s stopping you? Now is the time to have some fun, and explore your spouse in a way that has such amazing benefits.
If you’re lusting all day and all night, STOP laying up on Instagram, Facebook, and Google+. Hide, delete, or ban the app for a few weeks, so you can come back to reality. You’ll be surprised at the sexual content on Social Media. Now is the time to feed your spirit not your flesh. “Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls” ( James 1:21 ESV).