Happy Hump Day People

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I’ve heard this term countless times and thought… “folks still hump?!” LOL, my mind isn’t dirty, it’s just curious! So for those of you who don’t have a clue what hump day is listen up…

Hump Day is the middle point of the week. It means you made it 50% of the way and it’s supposed to give you the illusion that the rest of the 50% is going to be a breeze. Whatever. It’s just another day man. Tomorrow is one more, and so on. There’s never a middle of time until the day you die. Then you can find the middle of where your life was. When you do, trust me, it will have no similarity to “A Wednesday”. Probably more like “A Monday”. Yahoo Answer

This commical answer was given by furnace4bro, um thanks bro! Hahaha.

After laughing at his answer, I thought about it, what we do here on earth is really like a Monday and some people hate Monday and some love it, depending on your purpose. I’ve never worked for a corporation where I needed help getting through the rest of the week.

Wednesday was always my a cool down day, because I would try to get everything  accomplished before then, so my Thursday, Friday, Saturday was open for fun!

I like the sense of accomplishing my work before the week is up. A little advice to the work-a-holic, get it done before Thursday. I bet more people would be happy and would have time to date, and make out with their spouses if they took their week serious at the beginning and didn’t wait so late to draft the memo, send the email, paint the room, build the deck, lay the foundation, or take our free survey, to find a soul match. What are you WAITING on! You can be on your merry little way with the person of your dreams. It’s Hump Day People, what are you waiting on!

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Let’s talk about sex baby!

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Let’s! Ok, so researchers feel that having sex can help you have a healthy heart, happy wife, happy long life, right? Yes sir! Ever feel sleepy afterwards, well that’s because of the release of oxytocin and prolactin, sound like two yummy vitamins. Funny thing is that with each orgasmic explosion (awesome phrasing) you become totally relaxed, which relieves stress from the boby! Ooh, I like it!

I got this yummy advice from Skinny Mom. These gals believe that “having sex keeps your estrogen and testosterone levels in order. Because women who have low levels of estrogen are more likely to be at risk for heart attack.”  Ahhhh! Get over here, you sexy man before I have a heart attack!

The American Heart Association states, “Estrogen is believed to have a positive effect on the inner layer of artery wall, helping to keep blood vessels flexible.” A side note, I got my numbers checked and I’m heart healthy…what about you?

So at the end of the day, don’t stress have sex! 😘

If Lips, Could Talk

What can you tell about a kiss…a lot obviously! We’ve pinpointed three ways to tell how your guy feels about you, out of there’s three actions you can prepare your relationship for the next level. If you have a friend whose not sure, refer them to our kissing guide. Click on in to enlarge or download. 😘

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Make Out In Bed

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Ever wrote a to-do-list and had to put your spouse on there?  It went something like this 5. Mop the kitchen, 7. Change the linens. 9. Make out in bed…

I was laughing because these are some things we forget to do especially if you have children, a business, a book on a deadline. I feel that something as simple as that can make a difference. It may not stop global warming, but it can definitely heat up the bedroom.

Intimacy seems to be missing in most marriages. Sex is normally top priority or last priority, but what about true intimacy, when you kiss with your hands. You know the kind of kissing you see in a movie before clothes come off. I would rather lie in bed and kiss than go shopping, and that’s major. You can learn a lot about someone by being intimate.

I tell you what, instead of grabbing the remote and flopping down on the bed, sit besides your spouse and stoke their hair, rub their feet. Skip the news, sports, those reality shows and focus on your own reality. You’ll be surprised at how much affection you came give and accept and it didn’t cost you a dime and you don’t feel guilty about the time you spent. You can make intimacy a part of your everyday life, and you can include it wherever you go. Make it a top priority!

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Relationship Goals

I hear that term a lot or see it hash taged on countless pictures, #relationshipgoals, but I never looked at someone’s relationship as a goal I wanted to achieve. Let’s be honest how many of you will follow a guy or a woman who’s been divorced? I To be honest you can learn a lot from these kind of people, admire them for what they do right and pray for them when they fall short.

Prime example, Steve and Marjorie Harvey, they’ve been through a lot married, divorced, remarried. By now, he’s not afraid to kiss his wife in public. I hate seeing couples who are afraid to show PDA. Hold hands, touch her butt, ok too much, then hold her, kiss her, kiss her, and kiss her again, that stuff drives me wild. I’m just saying. I see the middle school kids getting more action then newlyweds. My man, Steve Harvey is all over Marjorie and she’s loving every bit of it and so are we. His life is an open book, he’s not afraid to talk about the failure and the success. He gives God honor for his marriage being the way that it is and that’s who deserves the credit.

I admire him for treating his wife like a Queen and not throwing her to the side, they make each other look good on and off the screen. Most women want to be bosses, but let me tell you something it’s noting like allowing a man to drape you, jewel you, pamper you, caress you with his strong hands, sorry I was having a moment, lol. That’s what he’s called to do, provide, protect and pamper. Ladies prepare yourself for a man that will compliment you, not take all the shine, that’s so ugly. Fellas we don’t want to see you all greased up 24/7, when you have a woman to compliment you, it says, “she believes in me, so what’s your problem?” For a woman it says, “he gives me the world.”

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You can admire a couple, but your relationship goals will never be like the next man or woman. We are all going in different directions. What works for the neighbors may not work for you. I hate stainless steel appliances, just saying. Hahaha!

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Jokes Over… I’m A Millionaire

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So April Fools 2014, I said… I was “Pregnant and Happy,” and sure enough it came to pass. So this year I’m making it official; I’m a millionaire!!!! There I said it and guess what, I have work to do.

With anything you want in life you have to do the work. Do you want to have a great marriage, start saying things like, my marriage is beautiful, we’re compatible, I enjoy what we have, we’re going to have a wonderful life together, I love you and I love us! Speak positive affirmations instead of negative crap! Your words are powerful people.

Same goes with dating, don’t doubt, don’t complain, don’t argue or compromise. You know what you want better than anyone, so say it! Remind yourself of what you said everyday and go after it. Keep a journal, a blog, a alarm reminder… (my favorite, it tells me, “You’re a Millionaire,” everyday at a certain time).

Don’t defeat yourself or hinder what’s meant for you. I would love to hear what you affirmed today! Forgot April Fool’s Day, we have Goals and Ambitions. And you will reach them. 😘